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Guy just wanted to be friends before and now we're giving it a shot

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I am agree with @fluffydeath that in order to be love and respect by other people we need to love and respect ourselves first....If we love ourselves and have self respect, we won't put ourselves in a situation or involves with people that will put harms on ourselves. Life and happiness are simple, we are the ones who made it hard ourselves sometimes.....

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Some red flags. If you wanted a long-term relationship with someone, don't you think you would be sure from the start, or have stronger feelings? He still needs time to gather his thoughts, and you do as well. Whether his previous thing was "no strings attached", or if it was something that could've broken his heart, it doesn't look too good: the former, he could easily only want the same with you; and if the latter, he might take you on as only a rebound relationship. Give it some time, and just be there to listen to him if you want to find something that will last (for anybody). It will weed out the bad ones. Explore your own feelings, flaws, and ways to solve them in the meantime. Learning to be secure in yourself, you'll develop higher standards and know what to look out for. 

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My bf wants to have intimacy with me. I told him. I don't want to do it unless I'm married. So I feel we're together. He's always so into peer pressure. His guy friends are laughing at him.. saying he's not getting any thing. I never knew it was an issue for him. I told him.. You knew you weren't going to get it.. Unless we married. I told you from day one. He's like you think it's making me stay. It's making me go. In the end.. if he leaves.. I'll be sad but I won't die.. not because I don't love him... Bc I feel like I'm so nice to him.. I want to be married. He's like how can we be married we only dated for a month. And he's saying most guys.. thinks these are red flags.. and would run already. 

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16 hours ago, babygirrll said:

My bf wants to have intimacy with me. I told him. I don't want to do it unless I'm married. So I feel we're together. He's always so into peer pressure. His guy friends are laughing at him.. saying he's not getting any thing. I never knew it was an issue for him. I told him.. You knew you weren't going to get it.. Unless we married. I told you from day one. He's like you think it's making me stay. It's making me go. In the end.. if he leaves.. I'll be sad but I won't die.. not because I don't love him... Bc I feel like I'm so nice to him.. I want to be married. He's like how can we be married we only dated for a month. And he's saying most guys.. thinks these are red flags.. and would run already. 

 

make him take HIV test before sleep with you. don't sleep with him until the result comes. also checked other sexual diseases that he might has. your future is important than just about sleeping together. I suggest you to find another man. 

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On 11/2/2018 at 4:08 AM, Sejabin said:

If you can still think about find someone else when travel, then this guy is not the one..

I mean.. used to be when I had a relationship with a guy, and we both in a long distance relationship for more than 7 years I never thought about I will find someone else because for me was, it was just him. That’s how serious I was.. even when I thought that he will find someone else, I didn’t care LOL. For me it was will be another case. Hahahaha but if he didn’t want me then it’s ok.. feelings and love is a prerogative things.. mmmm.. 

But if we can still think that we will meet another person then it’s mean we are not ready yet for a serious relationship :heart:

this is just my thought.. xixixixixi :relaxed:

Great mindset. You're a gem.

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As time passes by I like him more and more. I feel I should control my tongue and do more. Give more love to him like what the bible says. 

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