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On 2/8/2019 at 12:14 AM, angelwingssf said:

I think the lawyer wanted to marry Hansoo group so that he can control the riches of the family.  He and his mother are two greedy ones.  Deep down, the lawyer likes

Not that I am defending this creep, but the lawyer broke off before meeting YY. The girl was an idiot who decided to keep the baby and expected the creepy lawyer to return to her.

I am afraid the lawyer is going to fall in love with her, again,  we will see him getting jealous and wooing her. What a waste of screen time.

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On 2/6/2019 at 7:08 PM, angelwingssf said:

I know lot of you were thrown off by the sentence about CW's dad having a heart attack. GD was there to see that, but he did not make any attempt to call an ambulance.  Seeing the picture, I gave everyone a scare .:cold_sweat:.  I did not do it to scare anyone, but I think him going the hospital will bring some sense to SJ for having caused this. Looking at her picture, and what the cops told him, he must have been flabbergasted to know that SJ was causing all these problems and hewas not even aware of it.  I am surprised that neither halmoni or dad have'nt contacted either the foster mom or cw friend.  Wonder why?  If I was halmoni or dad, I would want to hear all about my child.  It would be nice to see some light hearted moments . 

CW's dad already questioned his judgment in regards to JS after learning she is the one to abandon his daughter. He did not consider just how deep her evil went until the police said she was a suspect in the DNA switch. Its one thing to learn that she did the ugly deed in the first place but its quite another to realize that JS was working to stop his daughter from coming home. The anger, the remorse and the guilt he feels to CW, his former mother in law and for himself was just too much on top of not really having fully processed the first shock of JS being the culprit in CW's disappearance and abandonment then he learns the rest. 

 

As for why they never considered her as the perpetrator is because JS acted very well as the concerned step mom. She ran around like she was truly looking for CW when she went missing and they only saw her acting like she was as distraught as they were It never occurred to them that the person was next to them who harmed CW because they only saw as a good wife , mother and daughter figure who was as broken up as they were. Reality has shown them that JS is evil and selfish and had no remorse for what she did. Look at Halmoni's reaction when she learns the truth and CW stands up to yell at JS. Halmoni stepped back in horror with her hand at her mouth (which is how I knew she would react). Here she just gave the woman the ring and the papers to adopt her as her own daughter and learns she had evil in her house the entire time. JS stood by and saw her suffering , saw her husband suffering and never said a word. They were fooled for so many years never knowing they had a white eyed wolf in their mist. CW's dad and Halmoni trusted JS so much that they never could think she would do something so evil to a child let alone them. 

 

Now that the police has told him I am sure everything that JS said and did and her body language will come back to CW's dad. He will also get why JY apologized to him that night and came home so very drunk. I said in a post a few pages back that they will see a different side to all of JS's reactions and comments once the truth comes out. Her words and actions take on a different context with them knowing she was the culprit.  It will scare them to realize that the person they most wanted to find and punish was beside them all the time. 

On 2/7/2019 at 9:06 AM, maribella said:

The evil woman is rather scary. She cried buckets in front CW at the market and not long after, she was on the phone buying off the milk lady. Right to the bitter end when JY was calling her out, she tried to stop him. Thank goodness CW stopped being the noble idiot and told her to stop. If the writer maintains that character type, she is not going to do the 'right thing'. Changing her without something horrible happening would be strange.

There is no remorse in JS at the moment but perhaps her husbands close call will bring home to her just what she did. Her child or children became more important then his daughter and the pain the man dealt with for 33 years over CW being missing. JS needs a wake up call to show her that her crocodile tears and leaving the way she did does not make up for what she has done to CW, her husband and Halmoni or even her children. Her selfish , greedy actions have hurt a lot of people and they are going to have to deal with the revelation of her betrayal to them. 

 

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7 hours ago, Ldy Gmerm said:

There is no remorse in JS at the moment but perhaps her husbands close call will bring home to her just what she did. Her child or children became more important then his daughter and the pain the man dealt with for 33 years over CW being missing. JS needs a wake up call to show her that her crocodile tears and leaving the way she did does not make up for what she has done to CW, her husband and Halmoni or even her children. Her selfish , greedy actions have hurt a lot of people and they are going to have to deal with the revelation of her betrayal to them. 

 

 

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Some of the new pictures on twitter. Looks like her remorse is giving more trouble to these two who are trying to find her in remote areas.  Drama Queen to the max.  

 

 

JY - in his next drama.

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Today's episode was OK not great. 

1.CW divorce -  Every one relevant knows about the divorce now.  I think  FIL wanted them to stay in the marriage, but  grandma wants them divorced.  WS goes and begs for forgiveness everywhere, but come on,  where were  you when your mother was throwing all the crap at CW.

2. JY filed to come off the registry (I think!) and father was upset about it.  Grandma knows too.

3. GP gets lost trying to find grams and get found by CY.  

4.  Some conversation between JY and his ex (Boring!!)

5. GD gets information that JY is working in a packaging facility and CW comes and sees him.  They get information about SJ and go looking for her.  CW trying to protect SJ from jumping off a cliff, falls down and gets hurt. (selfish to the end).

 

In the preview, we see CW in the hospital, Father in the bedroom collapsed, and GP sleeping with grandma.   

 

Instead of paying for her crimes SJ, has to nerve to take her life.  I don't know what she is thinking.  As @Ldy Gmerm said, she needs to lose something so dear to her, or something absolutely horrendous has tohappen and only then may be she will realize that what she did is wrong.  Just saying sorry without paying for the crimes is just BS.  

 

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3 hours ago, angelwingssf said:

Instead of paying for her crimes SJ, has to nerve to take her life.

JS is very selfish. This is why I said if she truly felt remorse she would have face them all instead of leaving a note making her children worry about her. All of this is for her to try and get sympathy. What would she really do if everyone told her to jump? Now her own actions have caused CW to be hurt yet again. Forgiveness is something that is earned and JS has not worked long or hard enough or shown remorse for what she did to get it. 

 

3 hours ago, angelwingssf said:

she needs to lose something so dear to her, or something absolutely horrendous has tohappen and only then may be she will realize that what she did is wrong.  Just saying sorry without paying for the crimes is just BS.  

Its a shame that it has to possibly happen this way for her to get it. Her own actions caused so much pain and anguish yet the only way for her to see it is to have someone get hurt or die . The people ultimately paying for her evil actions are her children and grand daughter. 

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5 hours ago, Ldy Gmerm said:

Its a shame that it has to possibly happen this way for her to get it. Her own actions caused so much pain and anguish yet the only way for her to see it is to have someone get hurt or die . The people ultimately paying for her evil actions are her children and grand daughter. 

 

It is possible that the granddaughter gets to know what her grandmother did - throwing away  Takkenendo Ajjuma and she might distance herself from her saying that she does not want to be abandoned and not lose her father.  Until and unless SJ realizes that she did wrong and walk by herself to the police station, she gets no sympathy from me.  It is ridiculous that she is still selfish. Look at how dejected YY has become from her cheery self. Is it CY that JY is sitting with at the hospital?  Or CY dad?

 

After seeing the subbed version:

 

I was saddened seeing CW in so much pain the entire 4 episodes.  First it was about WS and how wasted her life was, Second it was GP getting lost and bringing back memories, third was to tell her FIL about the divorce and all the garbage coming out, and fourth was to discuss these with her grandmother and father and last but not least falling down the rock and getting injured.  Writer-nim - please give our leading lady less pain than what you have dished for her.  Let there be some happiness for her - In the preview, she is lying in bed and has not woken up.  

 

Now that SJ caused another accident for CW, when is she going to learn that she needs to stay away in Jail.  Go away, Go away and go far far away.    Just a soompier's wish.

 

GP looks happy in the preview - probably came home and wants to sleep with great grandma and doesn't want to be taken away anywhere.  I wish the divorce is going to be final next week since CY dad and grandma also want her to separate herself.  When is she going to live in the rooftop house?  When is she going to wake up and when is she going to tell them.  

 

The last part of the conversation between CW and JY was very nice and how they both could joke and smile in these circumstances.  

 

Looking forward for next week.  

 

Writer- nim  & producer-nim :  Please keep less of the WS and divorce and less of SJ and more of our leading lady and man -  We want to see how they fare together.  Please throw away JY's ex.  Tired of seeing her (To me she is like Daya in "My only one" who causes trouble).  She wants to file for custody for GP and thinks that she will have an advantage since he no longer works at Hansoo group.  What will she do if she finds out he is no longer a Choi and his mother is a person of interest (probably chargeable crime - which CY's dad wanted her to come back and pay for it) in the legal system.  

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CW is unconcious? Let us hope it is not another amnesia :). She has rented a room, whatelse could happen?

I see too many threads now when earlier finding CY was central. I am getting bored. I hope @angelwingssf and others would continue recapping.  Have a great week everyone.

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On 2/7/2019 at 9:06 PM, maribella said:

Thank goodness CW stopped being the noble idiot and told her to stop.

 

Our optimism may be premature, as the tiresome 'noble' self sacrifice appears again, when CW falls down the cliff to save the wicked step mother. (Note: When you want to save someone from jumping to the cliff, grabbing/hugging her is not advisable, as you may also fall down the cliff. Before trying to save her, you need to think also of your own safety).

 

In the real world, Chi-Woo might die. Then, the cruel step mother would be very happy, as she lives and, bingo, the grandmother's wealth would pass down the step mother’s children. By contrast, CW would sacrifice the happiness of many kind persons, such as her grandma, her father, her step siblings, her adopted mom, her adopted siblings, as well as her own welfare.

 

This story has been very good as it allows Chi-Woo to reunite with her bio family in the middle of the serial. Unfortunately, the good flow of the story is ruined with this  'noble' sacrifice.

What would happen next? Would she become comatose or lose her memory?

It seems that in order to create more angst, many production teams do not mind to ruin the good flow of the story. (Remember "Encounter" and "Fates and Furies"?). It is getting tiresome.

I remember the old saying, "If it ain't broke, don't tinker with it".

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Darn. They're determined to redeem the evil stepmother, aren't they? I hate that she may end up not having to pay much of a price for kidnapping and then abandoning a child. (I think since the stepmother took CY away from Seoul to a different city, that counts as kidnapping.) Not to mention, then actively trying to prevent CY from being found including swapping the police DNA samples of CY's father, which I'm pretty sure is an actual crime, even if the other stuff that she did, e.g. take CY's picture from the company bulletin board, etc., isn't. A few letters boohooing over how she's sorry (yeah, she's sorry she got caught) and then running away so that she doesn't have to face the consequences her actions have on her children (taking her at her word in her letter to her husband, and assuming not because she just didn't want to face the actual music once she realized that they weren't just going to forgive her and look the other way) doesn't exactly smack of true atonement or justice to me. I'm not sure how much of a redemption that they are going to try for, but I think I'm already over it. She's a horrible, horrible woman to do that to an innocent child, and nothing will convince me that she's somehow turned over a new leaf and become someone different. If she could do that to an innocent child in the first place, then she really doesn't have any conscience or any heart any way.

 

Sorry. Mistreatment of children is a bit of a trigger for me, and the people who can do that are the lowest forms of life. I don't care how much they love their own children, that could just be pride or egotism to think that their child should be bettered even at the expense of another child.

 

I'm so upset about this, that it's drowned out the other things about this week's episodes that I liked. Namely, that CY is divorcing her husband, no ifs, ands, or buts. I think this is the way it should be for the stepmother as well. No matter how much they may beg, plead, and supposedly repent, keep them at a very distant arm's length.

 

I really think that CY's father has to divorce JY's mother. The thought of all those years of brazen lies should be repugnant to anyone. Just because one is older doesn't mean that one should settle for having that person by one's side. I mean, how will he ever know how much of her is sincere when such a big insincerity has been revealed?

 

Okay, off my rant now.

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@maribella, @jasmine19 -  It is true that CW need to stop becoming the 'noble ' sacrifice.  I wish the writer had not done that.  Instead had directed stepmom to go to the authorities.  Even though she said that it would hurt JY and CY, it is better that way than going and dying somewhere in the wilderness.  And in addition to that, she had programmed to send the message in time on that day.  She did that since wanted to be found.  She does not want to pay the price for her crime, but wants to live a comfortable life like a madam.  The text message date was exactly from the date she was going to die instead of say 5 days later after she died.  This kind of personality has a name.  But can't remember now.

 

In any drama, they usually have these kind of accidents and either they die - if they are slated to or heal in super fast speed.  I think the writer is letter her stay unconscious  so that they give prime time to JY to confess to her that he loves her and does not want to lose her and so on.  I don't think he would tell her directly even though by now both of them feel it by the way they look at each other.  Hopefully she will come out remembering everything - including their childhood and her father and grandmother and even SJ.  This will make her get out of that "noble " sacrifice complex.  

 

The step mother still has not learnt to be honest - just saying sorry to everyone will not make her crime go away.  What I liked the most in this episode was that CY became independent and rented a place to live.  That was great since she can avoid all the drama that is going on.  Now that she is going to be divorced, would grandma allow her to move out?  It would be good if she can move out so that she and her beau ( whoever it is ?) can be together and fall in love.  

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46 minutes ago, stroppyse said:

I'm not sure how much of a redemption that they are going to try for, but I think I'm already over it. She's a horrible, horrible woman to do that to an innocent child, and nothing will convince me that she's somehow turned over a new leaf and become someone different. If she could do that to an innocent child in the first place, then she really doesn't have any conscience or any heart any way.

 

Sorry. Mistreatment of children is a bit of a trigger for me, and the people who can do that are the lowest forms of life. I don't care how much they love their own children, that could just be pride or egotism to think that their child should be bettered even at the expense of another child.

 

Irrespective of the reason behind what she did, it is a horrible crime.  Until JY explicitly explained to her with GP as the reference, she was waltzing around saying she is sorry and asking for forgiveness.  So, I hope the writer does not redeem her or kill her.  I want her to pay for her crimes.  I think this is the path the writer is going (from previous dramas written by this writer.)

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6 hours ago, angelwingssf said:

The step mother still has not learnt to be honest - just saying sorry to everyone will not make her crime go away.  What I liked the most in this episode was that CY

In the voiceover, evil woman remembered Grandma rejecting JY, and she said if Grandma did not reject him, she would not have done it!!:triumph:

Talk about passing the buck. 

I have not watched any 100+ KD series that had just killed off or imprisoned the antagonists without whitewashing them.

The green rose (16 or 20 episodes) had the bad guy jumped off a building without repenting but we found that his family was swindled and he wanted revenge. The worst whitewashing was something like Love sincerely. The terrible woman ends up dying and had volunteered for a charity. She was almost turned into a Mother Teresa at her memorial. Evil woman here had given a lot of money to HY, is she going to donate something to CW ? Maybe they will write that CW has some disease and needs to replace some organ. 

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2 hours ago, maribella said:

Teresa at her memorial. Evil woman here had given a lot of money to HY, is she going to donate something to CW ? Maybe they will write that CW has some disease and needs to replace some organ. 

 

The money that she gave HY must be because she felt sorry for him since she knew his mother was not alive anymore and it was her way of making up for the crime she committed (I think!).  I don't think either JY or YY would want something from their mother at this time.  They seem to be working by themselves.  

JY did not even want to accept a position from GY company from his ex.  I think he will create something for himself and so will CW after her divorce and both will either be good friends or lovers or get married.  

 

I hope they don't drag CW to have some disease - god forbid - it would be good to not get anything from a toxic person like SJ.  Even though she can give crap about doing it for the family and JY - there were other ways she could have handled the same and she did not want to because of greed.  That is still the underlying reason for taking the route of abandoning CY.  

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Why CW ended hurt :joy: , all it needed one push and the evil stepmother  will be with her mother, pulling each other hair :triumph: 

 

and CW husband can’t stop be selfish, trying until last moment to hold back CW to stay with him and mothering him , so annoying u had mother let her take care of u leave her alone 

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@Ldy Gmerm I'm not being facetious but I have a question for you. When you use the initials JS you mean Chi Yoo's stepmother and WH is Chi Yoo's husband right? It confuses me a little when I'm reading. Just asking to make sure I'm applying the initials to the right person. ;)

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On 2/10/2019 at 6:20 AM, angelwingssf said:

1.CW divorce -  Every one relevant knows about the divorce now.  I think  FIL wanted them to stay in the marriage, but  grandma wants them divorced.  WS goes and begs for forgiveness everywhere, but come on,  where were  you when your mother was throwing all the crap at CW.

I think Chi Yoo's grandmother and father were just backing her up. They said they want whatever she wants. Basically the trust her judgment.

 

The person who shocked me in the divorce discussion was Chi Yoo's FIL. I couldn't believe he asked if they could trust Wan Seung just one more time. He knows all the Chi Yoo has been through with his sons and wife and has the audacity to want her to stay in their family. For what? More abuse? "He's really a good-natured boy"...uhhhhh...first he is not a boy! He is a grown man. Maybe if y'all treated him like one he would act like one. Second, he is not good-natured. He watched his wife get emotionally abused by his mom for not having a baby when that was his doing. Then rewarded her for enduring that abuse by cheating on her and not being there for her when she needed him most. FIL really should be sending her off with well wishes to be happy in her remaining years. Not trying to shackle her with his good for nothing son. 

 

22 hours ago, stroppyse said:

I really think that CY's father has to divorce JY's mother. The thought of all those years of brazen lies should be repugnant to anyone. Just because one is older doesn't mean that one should settle for having that person by one's side. I mean, how will he ever know how much of her is sincere when such a big insincerity has been revealed?

 

If Chi Yoo and Jin Yoo are to be together, her father will have to sign those adoption dissolution papers and divorce Jin Yoo's mother. IF they are to be together *fingers crossed*

 

14 hours ago, maribella said:

In the voiceover, evil woman remembered Grandma rejecting JY, and she said if Grandma did not reject him, she would not have done it!!

 

This made me SO MAD!!!

 

 

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16 hours ago, maribella said:

In the voiceover, evil woman remembered Grandma rejecting JY, and she said if Grandma did not reject him, she would not have done it!!:triumph:

Talk about passing the buck. 

 

It does not matter; Grandma is an elder who has lost her own daughter and trying to cope up having her son in law marry another woman with a child before marriage.  It was her house and the other woman waltzed in expecting to be welcomed with open arms.  She had under handed in dealing with it.  Even though I did not appreciate grandma treating JY like that, SJ could have dealt with it in other ways.  As many of you have said, she keeps saying sorry because she got caught.  Do you remember her reaction in the Cafe' when she found out that YY was hiring her as a guest artist.  She did not want her back.  That is pure evil.  Please writer - don't traumatize us by not dishing out her punishment.  IF she was not greedy, she would not have done it.  She would have talked with her husband and worked something out.  But she wanted the wealth that grandma had and you can see it so evident when on one evening they were talking about the mall and we can hear her voice over that it is almost over and her son can inherit Hansoo group and how she would not allow anyone to take away what she thought he deserved.  

 

1 hour ago, hopelesslyaddicted said:

The person who shocked me in the divorce discussion was Chi Yoo's FIL.

Me too.  Even here, after seeing how much CW had suffered with his wife and his immature son, he should have just let it go.  CW specifically said that she does not want to spend even a single day with him.  Once broken, better to let it go since it cannot be fixed.  Agree with you 100% about everything you said about WS.  He is just immature and selfish as his mother.  Give me one more chance.  How many times and items has he lied about.  CW friend was right on mark.  CW should not become weak and take him in.  

 

Would being abandoned cause a person to become emotionally soft or weak like CW?  I hope the writer brings back a gutsy CW like her grandmother and makes her become bold .

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19 hours ago, hopelesslyaddicted said:

@Ldy Gmerm I'm not being facetious but I have a question for you. When you use the initials JS you mean Chi Yoo's stepmother and WH is Chi Yoo's husband right? It confuses me a little when I'm reading. Just asking to make sure I'm applying the initials to the right person. ;)

Yes, Sorry it should be WS and SJ.

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Everyone has gone way too quiet this week.  Anything happening in "My healing love" . Would CY wake up -  looks like she is in a coma.  Would grandma approve of JY ex to get custody?  She wants JY by all means and getting custody of GP would be at the forefront.    Here are some pictures for you .  

 

 

https://entertain.naver.com/read?oid=112&aid=0003131287 -- For folks who don't have time to go read - here is a snippet.

 

In the meantime, "My Love Healer" side revealed a picture of Yeon Jeong-hoon, who looks at the owner of the house well. In the open photo, the owner is lying on his face with a pale face. And beside it, Yeon Jeong Hoon of the painful expression keeps silently with the owner. Especially, Yeon Jeonghun is worried about staring at the owner of the house with his gaze. He feels hesitant to say something to the sleepy owner, and gives a sad atmosphere. 

The filmmaker of 'My Love Healer' said, "In this scene, the emotions that have hidden the secrets of Cheuu are exploding, and the relationship between the two people will also change," he said. "Please expect what will happen between the two people who are gradually changing. "He said.
 

 

OK.  I give up.  Cannot figure out how to post the entire tweet from twitter.  Soompi must have made some changes.  Anyway, you guys can all see it if you go to the twitter account.  

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On 2/11/2019 at 11:07 PM, angelwingssf said:

Would being abandoned cause a person to become emotionally soft or weak like CW?  I hope the writer brings back a gutsy CW like her grandmother and makes her become bold 

@angelwingssf Yes, it would make any person soft. She has developed a fear of abandonment? Although she may have a lot of stuff but being an orphan in SKorea is So taboo. Look at how she grew up, she the orphan took care of the family when they needed money, when her brother was sick, look at all the part time jobs she had. CW never had the chance to be a child in my opinion. Then when she got married she had to be the adult in the relationship again. Always working and never having fun because her husband is to lazy to act like an adult. Smh smh smh smh 

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