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[Drama 2018-2019] Encounter / Boyfriend, 남자친구

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Whatever happens the mom better tell her son what she did sneaking behind his back like that.

 

She didnt even give the lady a chance just went full attack mode. :rage:

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50 minutes ago, bebebisous33 said:

I really really hope that the preview is misleading. CSH might ask for the break-up but this doesn't mean that JH will accept it. I also hope, he discovers what his mother did!!

I feel like I should wait for the next episode before watching the episode 13. 

 

That's my feeling, too.  I never do like the upsetting parts near the end of a drama, so I will wait to watch. 

 

29 minutes ago, shyguitar said:

Oh well, just like any other story, there is a crisis. So i guess we have to deal with this part in order to get into the resolution part. This too shall pass. Haaaaaiiiisssstttt

 

I was kinda expecting this.  In a 16 episode drama, things usually hit a major bump in episode 13.....and here we are!  

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9 minutes ago, jl08 said:

 

I see from all perspectives, chingus. 

Do we want JH to choose between his mum and his woman? It's not something that one can just tell your other half "Look, your mum spoke with me and she objected to our relationship" - what would be the response? He would immediately confront his mum and make things worse I guess..

 

 

So right! Let’s say SH had told the mom that she was still going to continue seeing JH. The mother would hate her, which would mean SH would be uncomfortable for the rest of her life in that family. Worse, what if mom went crying to JH complaining about SH being disrespectful then JH would be in an even tighter spot than he is in right now.

 

Which is why his mother planned to confront SH, after the dinner she knew how desperately SH was trying to win her favor so she used SH’s weakness to her advantage. 

 

@dramaninja I think that’s the reason why she apologizes to that shrine in JH’s room. She isn’t planning on telling him directly because she is not about that confrontational life. By apologizing to the shrine, it’s like she is absolved of her wrongdoings. 

 

@thistle yes, it makes sense for everything to go south in these episodes if we are going to get a happy ending. I would be more worried if it was all hunky dory because I would prepare my heart to have the  rug pulled out from under me during the climax. 

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I remember watching a famous drama, it's very sad when its near final epi,same like Encounter when it's epi 13, but when it's finally reach final episode,it become happy ending for the leads..I hope it will be like that..

Give me courage to watch this heartbreaking scene...

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In ep 14 preview, we saw this scene, didn't they shoot this scene just yesterday? They're really in tight schedule.. with Bo Gum going to host music bank in HK on Sunday, i guess they suppose to wrap all the final material within this week?

 

 

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11 minutes ago, ahdrianaa said:

 

@thistle yes, it makes sense for everything to go south in these episodes if we are going to get a happy ending. I would be more worried if it was all hunky dory because I would prepare my heart to have the  rug pulled out from under me during the climax. 

 

Exactly!  And we're supposed to get upset about what we are seeing because that is what keeps us watching dramas.  It's good old fashioned catharsis.  Aristotle figured it out more than two thousand years ago, and it still works!

 

borrowing this definition from NinjaWords:

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catharsis

 

noun

°(drama) A release of emotional tension after an overwhelming vicarious experience, resulting in the purging or purification of the emotions, as through watching a dramatic production (especially a tragedy). Coined in this sense by Aristotle.

 

example:  "Seeing the hero's catharsis helped her deal with the loss of her parents."

 

°Any release of emotional tension to the same effect, more widely.

 

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20 minutes ago, yonaomi123 said:

I think when she said all that about how women should live quietly with their husbands and children, in the early episodes, JinHyuk's mother really meant what she said.  I had thought at the time that maybe she was making a subtle dig at her husband and feeling a little sad about lost opportunities for herself.  But apparently not!  (which is fine, for her, because that's her choice) 

 

But to ignore her son's decision to not live with a woman who has those same beliefs isn't right.  He's an adult and he deserves the opportunity to make up his own mind. 

 

URGH!! This writer.  They're really hitting us over the head with all of the societal issues. 

 

I see it differently....

 

If she really meant it, she should practice what she believed. By talking to SH behind JH’s back, she was meddling. No matter how she feels about their relationship, she should not ask SH to end it. This is no different than when SH’s mum went to JH to ask him to stay away from SH. JH’s mum had been portrayed as a gentle, simple, family-loving, the last few episodes... but this episode, she showed her insecurities and impulsivity. When JH father knew about their relationship, he spoke to JH. He withheld his judgement and carefully spoke to SH to have a sense of her and her feelings. JH mum spoke to no one, not even her son but made up her mind that SH was not a suitable partner for JH and sought to separate them. 

 

I am hoping this is just a knee-jerk reaction from mum and that JH dad and JH will be able to show her a different perspective.

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This wasn't the scenario I was hoping for.  I took for granted JH's mom seemingly gentle personality. Never thought that she would meet SH like this. Worse, SH loves JH so she would respect his mom's feelings. But I hope the next episode tomorrow would not result to a breakup. Please writernim life is depressing enough,  and we only have 3 episodes left.  I'm not even expecting a wedding, just let SH be accepted by JH's family.  

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OMG!

I just woke up and i woke up reading all these!

what the ?? what happened!?!?!? :bawling:

Im not gonna watch this episode and wait for tomorrow

aigooo. My heart cant handle it.

 

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30 minutes ago, khxy said:

Ep 14 written preview

 

"No matter what happens,i will protect you"

 

Even though Soo Hyun knows Jin Hyuk's family normal life is affected but Soo Hyun does not wish to let Jin Hyuk go, it causes her great pain.

 

Soo Hyun's dad trusts in Jin Hyuk and after much consideration, he cut all ties with Taegyong.

 

An unexpected guest comes to visit Soo Hyun.

 

Omo! How is it possible to have missed this line?! Cha Jong Hyun like Mr.Nam were won over by Kim Jin Hyuk!

 

Soo Hyun's Appa is jjang! What a courageous move! 

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My god i want to take a sleeping pills so i can sleep not thinking anything and wake up tom night if the episode 14 start airing, i dont want to think anymore and i dont want to repeat the  same scenario again when i was watching AIMH 

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Just now, dukesa1122 said:

OMG!

I just woke up and i woke up reading all these!

what the ?? what happened!?!?!? :bawling:

Im not gonna watch this episode and wait for tomorrow

aigooo. My heart cant handle it.

 

 

You’re going to want to watch just for JH’s out of this world confessions to SH. 

 

“Just stay like this, not even a little change. A time/place without SH, isn’t my time/place for me”

( his mom might burst a vein if she hears this, he is going to give up any place where SH is not accepted!)

 

PBG and SHK’s acting in this episode is astoundingly good, those two times when he confessed his feelings. My heart!! 

 

How many times has JH gone down on his knee now? Three times?

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4 minutes ago, leedonghaek said:

 

cr : en_junio

 

:love:

 This is such a cute scene..:wub: so tender yet to deep

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Just now, gigivillaceran said:

My god i want to take a sleepings so i can sleep not thinking anything and wake up tom night if the episode 14 start airing, i dont want to think anymore and i dont want to repeat the scenario again when i was watching AIMH 

Could you tell me what is AIMH?:D

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31 minutes ago, sugarbunnee said:

I'm absolutely gutted after this episode.

Poor SH! SHK was incredible in that scene with JH's mom. I was crying along with her. 

I get that JH's mom had what she thought was his best interest in mind with what she did but the way she went about contacting SH before talking to JH or even her husband was shady AH! It totally justifies why JH was so hesitant to tell her about the relationship in the first place and unlike his dad, she does not trust in him or his judgement.

The one glimmer of hope I get from the preview is seeing SH confiding in Mrs. Lee. At least she is not trying to face this alone and is hopefully seeking advice. I actually wouldn't even mind seeing Mrs.Lee intervene on their behalf at this point. As long it doesn't go down the typical K-drama route of noble idiocy with her breaking up with him for his own good. However it gets resolved, it needs to happen quickly. We only have 3 more episodes and a long separation would just be too much to bear.

 

@sugarbunnee 

It is great that KJH knows Mr. Nam and CSH knows Teacher Lee because

- Mr.Nam can explore more information about KJH for CSH's dad; and

- Teacher Lee can explore more information about CSH for KJH's dad and also can signal to KJH directly.

 

Encounter has been written with reasonable story and script, I can not complain about that.

 

- KJH's mom is reasonable to be like today's epidode from KJH's mom's character that audiences has watched for 13 episodes. 

- CSH is reasonable to be like today's and tomorrow's episode.

 

- We could hope for KJH to be as he has been for 13 episodes about love for CSH in coming episodes too, right Writer Nim?:star::kiss_wink:

 

29 minutes ago, rosiepeonie188 said:

 

In ep 14 preview, we saw this scene, didn't they shoot this scene just yesterday? They're really in tight schedule.. with Bo Gum going to host music bank in HK on Sunday, i guess they suppose to wrap all the final material within this week?

 

 

@rosiepeonie188 Music Bank in HK has been scheduled when the ending of Encounter used to be tomorrow. Park Bo Gum, Fighto for Tons of Encounter's script and long Music Bank's script.

 

Anyway, please come back from HK to film the happy ending in a certain way for audiences then. :love::heart:

 

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