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19 minutes ago, cenching said:

It made me feels the wiman somehow a predator.....

 

Perhaps the woman is just happy to be single until the right man came along and he happened to be younger?

 

18 minutes ago, Lmangla said:

whereas large age gaps like a thousand years in the goblin, it is not like he has failed love life or a failure in life. he just happen to meet his bride after 1000 years...so not that depressing even if it is super strange... whereas in noona romances, it is always because she is failure in attracting men her own age that she decides to check out the next level...

 

Goblin and vampire stories like Twilight just creep me out because of the huge age gap, I have to wonder what it is about the innocence of their intended brides that attracts them. It borders too close to pedophilia which really creeps me out, even though I understand that the women will eventually age as well, but they also seem to pick schoolgirls to start with.

 

Also, the huge age gap is considered romantic when it's the male who is immortal going after the schoolgirl, but if it were a woman going after a schoolboy, she would be a succubus or something. And, that kind of age gap would creep me out as well. It's that schoolgirl/schoolboy thing being so close to pedophilia that is the problem for me.

 

I'm fine with adult age gaps as long as both parties are fully adults responsible for their own choices, though when it's too extreme, e.g. > 20 years, I think that is just really, really odd.

 

As for Encounter, the age gap isn't supposed to be that great, maybe 5 years. The male lead is supposed to be in his late 20's since he's already finished college and done his military service and everything, and the female lead is in her early 30's. Plus, despite their difference in ages, and that the female lead is a divorcee, the drama makes the point that the female is also a neophyte when it comes to love since her marriage was arranged and pretty hellish on her.

 

Sorry to intrude on your conversation. Just jumping in on a little conversation, so hope neither of you mind. :)

 

 

2 hours ago, Dhakra said:

@stroppyseGood morning Honey :joy: Babe is awake. 

Oh don't get me started about french people, french are very special. But germans are perfect aswell to have a fun time with. :D About time you visit Germany again.

 

Morning, babe! Germany is fun, so is France. Both of them are large countries with very opinionated people. :D

 

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Love is blind. 

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@stroppyse ~ found the goblin story weird and very strange because of the huge age gap. so didn't bother to check it out...  but the difference is that those stories are not presented like he is hitting on this girl because he failed. yea, someone might have broken his heart or he got kicked out of some immortal realm etc... but the romance story still follows them getting to know each other a little more naturally... and yea, have no idea why the brides are often very young...

 

whereas with noona romances, the story always starts off with failing in her own age gap. no idea why it starts out that way. so the whole time, she is struggling with dating a younger man because he represents her failure in many ways.... so rather than romantic, it just comes across as depressing. there are folks who really love the noona romance but generally, it is not my cup of tea...

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@stroppyse

Actually my not so savory opinion about cougar-boytoy’s relationship only applies to drama or film because it doesn’t looks good at all while eye candy is very important part of my drama viewing. 

 

While in real life I have no right to judge another people’s life....I know a couple whose wife is older by 17 yo another couple the wife is older by 22 yo...It does look cringeworthy on the paper beside the wives look like the mother when they were together but they are very much in love and live happily together, so why not?

 

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Well I may not have a boy yet...but at least I got my oppas:sweatingbullets:

 

@cenching @angelangie

 

At this point, I’m really annoyed by what I am seeing in the hang out thread. So the girl who cried for help ended up  complaining that the boy hates her. I feel kinda like...we’re being played...Hm...

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2 hours ago, Dhakra said:

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@Sejabin:innocent:

 

@sushiliciousHuh, okay.

 

@angelangieMakes sense. :D 

 

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they will tell me when they want to :) im not one to butt into ppl business unless i need to....if not i believe in everyone privacy :) 

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If he hates you and you know it? Why even staying?! Plus you hate him too...

 

Hm..if he hates her, why does he wants intimacy from her? Hm...

 

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So far all my girlfriends where a little older than me, can't say it was good though.

 

But from my pov I really dislike the term boytoy, I mean, it probably is like this, but it's no secret that I really hate older man playing with young girls, in e-v-e-r-y crime drama there is at least one scene where some old (rich) creep touches or flirts with a young girl. It's so goddamn disgusting. 

Love is different I guess, but still, I think I couldn't do that.

Only yesterday I talked with a friend of mine about Crayon Pops Soyul and her ultimate sacrifice to save her and the bands career. Pretty much everyone knows that she was forced by the label. 

 

Reminds me of another drama I really dislike and that makes my sisters go harsh on me. I'm ready for your scolding. ICHYV felt so odd aswell.

 

But on the same page, there is one ahjumma I would fell for right away.

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High Five for the first who knows her! @triplem You are out, you know it because you read my messages during the time I watched the drama. :D 

 

 

 

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2 hours ago, cenching said:

I had swept off everything with Jang Hyuk and Gong Yoo that available in the Net including variety shows....:sweat_smile: I have no C drama that interest me so I watching that Precious Sword’s drama since many of his snippets popped out in my YouTube feeds...

 

I don’t like Encounter bcoz SHK-PBG don’t looked good together IMO....

 

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hehehe....i found that all of us here almost have similar taste :D 

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@Dhakra You know. Years of fanning on different oppas let me to believe one thing. 

 

I wouldn’t mind dating guys who are older than me. I see from mid 30s to 40s. To me, that age group is one of the most mature stages in man. Where man starts to get their crap together.but of cause. Wait till I’m older....

 

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I neither want old guys nor boys who are younger than me. I want my man to be of the same age as me or like 1 or 2 years older. Only then we can talk about similar stuff and enjoy the same things. Can't have younger guys because I can't take care of a kid, when I'm the type who needs protection and care. Too older than me also will feel like we are in different generations. LOL. 

 

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@kokodus you are right. Love comes in many different forms...each have their own ideal type. 

 

I hug my pillow and say “I love you pillow.”

 

:joy:

 

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@sushiliciousSis, beloved baby sis. 

4ssddEQ.gifNo boy on this planet will ever be good enough to date you. 

 

I don't have to worry about @kokodus Her scratchy personality will keep away the guys better than I could ever do. :joy: Oh, she is going to kill me so hard. :joy:

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Love ya sis.

 

9 minutes ago, sushilicious said:

To me, that age group is one of the most mature stages in man. Where man starts to get their crap together.but of cause. Wait till I’m older....

 

That's true. As a guy I can also tell you that guys before 30 are also more boyish. I'm the best example. The moment I turned 30 my life changed a lot, I lost about 30KG and worked on me getting in shape. Looked for a better job and apartment. Stuff like that. 

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@kokodus :sweat_smile: Wait till you get into that situation!!! I feel I married an aboji!!!!:lol::lol: And he is just 2 years older than me!!! 

 

Edit: oooo that wud make me halmoni!! :ph34r: Which I am not!

 

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Oh crap, lil sis is here. I have to run to get a head start. She will hunt me for the rest of the day.

 

3 minutes ago, sushilicious said:

I hug my pillow and say “I love you pillow.”

 

I would be careful with that. There are pillows that are shaped.....very.....awkwardly.

 

There are girl-sized pillows with.....you know.....if I remember correctly some chinese guy also married his waifu pillow. 

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@staygold I would like to have a ‘father’ type figure relationship :) 

 

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