Sorry Nguyen Mai, is there any word there saying I'm judging JS subjectively. The point I wanna say is we don't know who fault and what happen in there relationship, because JS seem don't show much his friendship with another co-star. And I follow him for long time not only you. I like him even before Pino, I like him in IHYV, but not crazy as much as I like him after PIno. Since i knew they are dating, I started to find thing about him and I love him more and more. I was super shocked after dating news. But I'm not surprise because they are opposite. SH more extrovert and JS are introvert. Do you think I'm bias SH toward JS? You may not believe me, but after SH dating news, I am even think I will leave her and become JS fan. But, after a while, i wonder myself, why I become like that, acting is their job. And we saw what suppose to be see via screen, we don't know them in person . Have you ever think even your parent know 100% about you? I guess not. Right? And please don't analysis all the IG, they are still fine until the end of December 2016. Because many people saw them hang out together in Busan, when both filming their movie, and SH even appear on YKS show Knowing brother around Jan. Just something happen after that. They don't have plenty of free time to throw those hints to us every day as you said. SH just simply like post her music, she did that all the time even during their dating. Plus, why I am said JS happy during tik Tok app, and did you even read I said he said to his fan, his is now so happy during his book fan sign last year, and one of his long time fan told us, he smile non stop around March celebeau fan sign. I mean he is finally move on and be happy.
To be frankly, the way you say, sound like I'm judging and blaming JS. Am I? If you think so, I can't change your mindset, and I honestly sorry about that. Is there any point I said JS doesn't love SH? I just said with me, I feel during dating time, SH love him more. But it not mean he doesn't love her? If he doesn't love her? Why they are become couple.
You can disagree with me, you can hate SH, you cannot believe her, I don't mind. But remember, life is unexpected, and we never know what happen tomorrow. My whole point just want to show you guys, they are good person but they just don't match, so break up is unavoidable.
and the reason why I post my thought here, because why, all Darling shippers now, turn their back to SH, they all blame SH, just simply SH dating first. They said to SH I am disappointed about you, I thought you are good girl but you are now , and said to JS, fighting and be happy, let's be strong.
what do you think? what happen if JS already in another relationship but hasn't got caught yet? I mean I'm not saying he with someone now. But assume, if his dating news come out tmr, maybe with one of his co star like hhj or shs, what you guys reaction? I'm sure we are all quite and come back to SH and said. I'm sorry I was misunderstanding you blah blah.
Let said it clear, I don't believe either JS or SH, I don't believe anyone, because I mentioned before. We only know 3 parts out of 10 of them. Whatever they show us, just a tiny bit of their life. Not all. Are you show your true all to your best friend? I don't think so, even me, I still keep something for myself. It mean I don't judge any of them. I just saying my point. And those evidences about necklace and stuff, that is the fact not delusional.
Talking about a hint, last night at 3am morning, JS post cherry blossom, few hours before HHJ post icon cherry blossom, do you think just coincidence or they throw some hints. I never believe hint on IG. And JS always said, IG is place for his fans, so I don't think he turn it to lovestagram?
At at the end of day, we never know what happen and who right or who wrong? I never assume anything. I just saying my point of view based on fact. About the poem, I can't say much, if JS really in that much pain, I apologise to all JS fan in this world and you can hate SH because she move on first.
after this thing happen, I lost my faith in people. My good darling friend, my chingu, turn into different people. When the dating new come out, they said even SH dating, they always support her, but when something about SH come out and how happy she is, they blame SH why she so happy and JS still in pain. Tell me why? Tell me why? So mean SH not deserve any happiness just because she has another guy now and already move on. Tell me why, during the time they are still together, we are like family, we are united. Now, we are, I mean darling become strangers.
At last, after all this explanation and you still think I against JS or judge JS because I am SH fan. I totally understand, but the fact is the hate towards SH getting more and more these days, and most of them from another shippers including darling. I can't change it, I am nothing and I can't do anything. Life is about move on.
and this is for everybody not only you Nguyen Mai, I totally understand you guys feeling and I can't move on until now. But, look, it their life not our life, why we take time to care about? Do they know we care about this? and both of them deserve happiness doesn't matter who they will. They are both good people, but they simply not make for each other.
Nguyen Mai, I'm sorry for this happen, I understand how broken heart you are and i am too. But the most worrying me now, because of SH hiatus, many of her only true fans left her fandom now. I guess finally SH paid back what she did. This is more broke my heart. I don't know what I should said. And you know what, even just following, but many of JS Korean fans now start following HHJ, I just found it, it not about shipper thing, but they never follow SH before. It's just broke my heart again. They may hate SH as well. Because she deserve it. Because she dating another guy now.
By by the way, please don't mind what I say now, I just a bit emotion when I saw many fans turn their back to SH. Please ignore me. Have a wonderful day and let move on