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  1. I totally agree. We are free to express our opinions and love for QingYu here. I want to keep it that way. Let's just love. There are too much hate in this fandom already and in the world that it's time to stop. I would like to go back to the time when we post things and candies and gush about them instead of speculating that something wrong is happening. This forum is chill. We are chill. And QingYu are continuing to work hard to achieve their dreams. I want to believe that.
  2. And I did the same. And I will give your words back to you. If you are offended by my opinion or triggered, then that's your problem. I am sorry if you think you are the only one who has the right to say whatever you want to say and be offended on other people's opinion but other people can't be offended on your opinion. The level of distaste you have on QingYu and their fans who spend money on them was clear from the get go on my opinion. I know QingYu themselves said that they won't accept gifts and encourage their fans to donate in charity. I don't know those fans personally so I won't assume to know if they spend more on QingYu than to charities. For all we know, they spend money on QingYu but they donate twice of that amount to charities. Who are we to know? And I admire people who support themselves and even work while studying. I am like that too. My siblings are like that, working part time while studying. All I am saying, is that instead of assuming things about QingYu fans and their spending, why not just concentrate on bringing good news about QingYu instead of raising issues that can just cause conflicts and difference in opinion. I thought what we want here are good vibes and spreading QingYu's message. That is to love and be one family. Fans are fans. May they be onlys or cpfs. We are all fans and in the end we support who we want to support in our own ways. In the only ways we know how.
  3. Personally, if I am rich, I will also spend money on QingYu. Not to brag or anything but because I want to. If I have the means to buy their albums or pay for a chat group, why not? I would do it, without blinking or regret because I simply want to. Sadly I don't have the money and I can't even understand their language. T_T Life is too short to spend it criticizing or judging others on how they spend their money or being bitter because you have to support yourself through college while other girls have rich parents. Or drag on about giving to charity rather than spend money on your idol. Life is too short for that. Do what you want. Support who you want to support and let other people in their craziness. Me, I mind my own craziness, I have too much. He he. That's my opinion. I know it's won't be popular but that's me.
  4. I love the second pic. That's my favorite moment. When Qing hugged Dayu so they won't fall. Badminton Date. What a boyfriends thing to do. I feel like QingYu had a list of dates to do. Shopping..check. Coffee together...check. Skiing...check. Horsebackriding...check. Basketball...check. Badminton...check.
  5. Wondering how is Dayu doing with his intention to lose more weight. Is 60kg still healthy for a guy who is almost 6foot tall? Will he won't be too skinny that way?
  6. Yes. Exactly my thoughts too. People will always judge him whatever he does so I think Dayu should just act like he always does. Some fans making a big deal out of it. I don't know why. Just happy that Dayu is sporting sexy colored hair and wearing SUPREME
  7. I LOVE his hair<3 Strutting like a model in the catwalk. He is perfection. One word: BADASS
  8. I think Baba has a bigger shoe size. He he...the height difference. But it's also possible that Dayu wears Baba's shoes...IDK.
  9. Now that shooting for Chen Yang is over and Baba is in Malaysia, I wonder what is Dayu doing? Not losing any sleep on this one but just randomly thinking about it.
  10. Baba is in Malaysia?! Wow! I hope some lucky Malaysian fans can see him or pictures can be taken. I wonder if Baba is approachable. Cause for me personally, I can probably gather courage to approach Dayu but I think I have to be a bit tipsy first before I can convince myself to approach Baba. I will be so nervous and excited and scared I might faint. IDK, that is just me. I am just wondering
  11. @aili81 sis, I don't think you are a troublemaker. I will trustyour words when you said you have endured it for so long and now you are venting all your frustrations here. I know you are annoyed but I also want to appeal to you that like me, some people think that enough had been said and it's time to close it. This will be my last post about this. Please anyone, don't quote me anymore so I won't be oblige to speak out some more. Aili sis, I am still at least a friend or cofan, if you want someone to talk to, I am here and I will listen to you. I will listen to you rant, and I will I respect you and what you feel. I hope we can close this now and stop so we can all start enjoying being QingYu fans again. That's all.
  12. @aili81 sis, I know you were hurt. I hope you can stop hurting. I don't know what else can be said for your emotions to go down but I hope you can one day get past this. Life is short sis, let's not spend it while fighting. I know QingYu is worth fighting for but I don't think @swong2330 is an enemy you have to continue to attack. I know that she tried reaching out to you. I think she was sincere in trying to mend things with you. Let's stop Aili sis before we got to a point where we cannot mend the bridges anymore. Before we said more things that we cannot unsaid and trult hurt each other. I know you might think that I am being an annoying meddlesome person here but I have five sisters in real life and as I thought of you and swong as my sisters too, I am getting in between just like how I will try to mend my real sisters relationship if they are in trouble too. Sorry for meddling but I just hope we stop this war that is just opening wounds and making them bleed instead of healing them. Aili sis, I sincerely hope you will get past this pain.
  13. @swong2330 I think you have your reasons for being disillusioned as a CPF fan. Like I said, I don't let myself get affected by what other people said about QingYu. I have my own conviction. Maybe you are right, it's because other fans, like you (are you still a fan IDK, so if you can clarify that for me that will be great) protected us so QingYu image will remain sweet for us. But that is another matter. Like I said, I was suprised because you are about the first person who welcomed me in the fandom and I felt like I owe you for introducing QingYu to me. But reading your posts in twitter, I will admit I got angry as well but then i stopped myself because I thought you must have your reasons. I always felt like you are an intense person. Someone who loved too much and if you got disappointed, you lash out because you were hurt (correct me if I am wrong, I don't mean to psychoanalyze you I'm sorry). But in the end of the day, I can't lie to myself. When I ask myself, I still love QingYu and what they represent when I first knew about them. I guess we just have to respect each other. I respect you, I truly do. I just hope that things will calm down now because for me, I am happy to meet QingYu and meet people, sisters and brothers, like all of you in this thread. P.S. Can I just say that I miss all the candies? I miss my dose of sweets. I hope we can get back to those days. If not...then I hope we can move on with peace.
  14. @dramalover4 I agree with you. I am also an observer more than a confronter of things happening. I think that is why I feel guilty why I didn't voice out and stop what Swong had done too. I just hope new people who discovered QingYu won't be discouraged to like them and be their fans when they see those posts. Saying that, I also hope we can all move on now. And do better. I got busy writing fanfics and decided to just visit this site in ninja mode. But now I know better. I should have also written some gushing comments about QingYu here to show how I appreciate them and love them. Let this be a learning lesson for all of us. I am an international fan, I rely on others for news on QingYu but I got more careful now in believing what I am reading and hearing. I got selective in believing people posts. I should pledge like what Baba did. I should post here about QingYu at least thrice a week to show my appreciation on my sisters and brothers that are keeping this thread alive.
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