Not a problem...it was a fun fan meet.
In reflecting on the last two years. They have come a long way. There are times I wish they were in Thailand where they could be an " out couple" if they chose to be..holding hands, hugging, being together publicly, but sadly, it's China. It's hard enough to get a decent BL series nowadays let alone be SS couple. It's easy for those who are not in a Same x Sex relationship to be judgy...but I tell you, it can be very difficult no matter what country you are in, but especially China. Not being out...doesn't make them not real...it just makes them cautious. But even if they were out..we'd still not know everything about them. I think about Porsche and Arm a married gay Thai couple - Porsche is the actor who was in TWM, and even NewYear and Both...NewYear having recently been in a couple of Thai drama's and actually didn't get the role in another BL drama because he was gay. ( go figure ). You only know what they share - the rest is personal.
I support Qingyu as a couple - I get what it means, the sacrifices, the caution, The having to say and do things to throw folks off the track for safety. Been there done that. Coming out ain't easy and until you've been on that journey - you can't judge. You can't know...the best you can do is THINK you know...but in the final analysis - you don't. So congrats to them. I hope that times will change for them or they change locations...ultimately, they have to do what is best for them period and no punnani on earth will change that !