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Do You Ask Your Parents For Permission?

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I don't know if I posted this in the correct section O_________O Correct me if I'm wrong!

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I'm 16 turning 17 in October.

Do you ask permission from your parents to hangout with friends or sleepover? etc?

When my friend invites me somewhere, I don't even go to my mom and ask her, I just say yes

My mom would say yes anyways, (last year she told me as long as I'm happy, then shes happy; get my grades up .____.)

Its not like I'm a 'rebel', but my mom is fine with wherever I'm going.

Sometimes I go out and come home at 10pm, but I do call her if I'm out that late just so she doesn't worry I got kidnapped.

In Feb, I went to Lake Tahoe with only my 17 y/o friend, and two 18 y/o guys that my friend knows.

When I talk to my friends about that topic, they think I have too much freedom

I think I do in someway, because I'm bratty/stubborn now

& my grades dropped, badly >>

Do You Ask Your Parents For Permission?

How old are you?

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No. I just tell them I'm going out with friends and leave.

I am 19.

But when I was younger, I would ask just to be "good" because my older sisters never asked. Then I got fed up when they kept saying no, so I stopped asking and just went.

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i always ask permission if i need to go somewhere especially i'll be out for quite a long time. i also say yes to my friends even though i still didn't ask permission from my mom.

you're very lucky cuz your mom allow you all the time. my mom says no when it comes to sleepovers. though she allowed me recently.. :D

when it comes to going home late, i also call her.. i stay really late at night and usually go home around 11pm to 12 mid. but i make sure a driver or a friend is with me when i stay late outside..

i'll be 17 this april 24.. :D (forgot to tell :D)

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No. I just tell them I'm going out with friends and leave.

I am 19.

same situation. but now i have my own place so i come and go as i please.

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nope .

unless i know that they wuld get mad.

:P

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I'm turning 17, and yes I do ask my parents for permission ~ gah, it's so scary sometimes asking xD

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i just say yes before asking them, and then just tell them who i'm going with when i'm leaving. they don't mind much to where i go, i'm 17.

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yeah, i'm 16. if i don't ask for permission my parents would freak out.

and theyr'e really annoying about saying yes or no. they're like "well it depends on my schedule" -__-

i can get home and to where i'm going alone; their schedule shouldn't matter. gah...

can't wait until i'm older.><

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20 this year.. i used to ask for permission when i was younger..

and i stop asking when i was 18.. i will jus inform them where i am going..

and call them again when i will be going home after midnight/ sleepover..

just to reassure them?

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I will just inform in advance or something, in case my mum needs me.

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I'd let them know ahead of time. Sometimes I do, sometimes I just make the decision myself.

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I'm going to be 20 this year. I used to ask for permission until i was 18, but now i just tell them if im going out. I let them know if i'll be out late, but for clubbing and stayovers, i still need permission. I dont mind tho.

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i do ask~

akeke like i aksed my mom if i can pierce my tragus she said it's okay ahaha~

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I always say yes.

Then I ask.. but I know the answer is going to be yes anyways.

They just want to know where I am.

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I have to ask ==; I'm 13 years old, and my parents used to often say no until we moved to australia.

if i were in the philippines I'd have alot more freedom since I know loads of people there, but back in

new zealand i have to tell my parents 1 week advance if i want to go out o________o; But its probably

becaus both of my parents work from when i get home 'till night, and on the weekends in themorning

until afternoon. holidays they work the whole day ==; So im usedto just having to stay home and

make sure my 2 younger brothers (11 & 5) dont burn the house down, take a shower, flush the toilet & eat.

But since I've been having to do this since I was 9, I'm too lazy to get out of the house. I'd rather be watching

my japanese dramas <3

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I inform! And I'm 16. I just usually say, "Hey I'm going to my friends, is that is okay with you?"

That's usually for sleepovers. But when I'm going out, I'm just "HEY I'm going out got my phone BYE!" xD

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19 going on 20 & i no longer need to ask for permission. WOOT!

i inform them of where im going if there around...

but back when i was 18 i still needed permission & i had a curfew of 10;30 =.=

was never allowed to sleep overs.. even if its at my cousins house.

yup my parents were tight!

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I don't ask permission but I tell them my whereabouts.

I'm actually off-age already so they allow me to go anywhere I want as long as I tell them where it is.

BUT they do not allow me to go to sleep overs.

It's weird, coz I can go home anytime I want and I can go out-of-town or out-of-the-country with my friends but they wouldn't allow me to go to sleepovers. But it's okay. They're not strict with me anyway.

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I tell them beforehand. They've never been strict with me; and I'm an only child, too. I just turned 19 this month, but my parents don't want me going home late. No problem... I don't really like going out anyway.

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i call informing that i'll be home late so they wont be worried.

well, actually it's just my mom. my dad doesn't care

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