FraZZLE added a topic in love & relationshipsMy coworker is acting strange...I am relatively new at my workplace and one of my coworkers is giving off a strange vibe. She invades my personal space and is all up in my face when we talk. She tends to sit on my desk to talk to me too...although I notice she does that other people as well.
The other day, she told in me in a low voice that I'm looking to get out of the city, I could stay in one of her homes in the countryside for free as long as I look after her pets. I figured maybe she was just being friendly since she knows I'm new to the area and have no family or friends here. Also, it seems like she has a couple homes that she rents out to vacationers so I figured maybe she wants to advertise.
Today, we broke off into teams at work for an activity and she happened to be in my group. We were sitting next to each other and she rubbed my back and gave me a hug, saying "I'm so happy you're on my team."
What's going on here? I'm trying to give her the benefit of the doubt and tell myself that maybe she's just being overly friendly and has poor boundaries. What do you guys think?
P.S.: This lady is my mom's age.... if not older.
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