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Having Dreams Of The Same Guy Over Again...

MinMin09MinMin09 내 심장을 뛰게 하는 말Posts: 258Member
... am i just being weird to worry about this?
this is my first time starting a topic in this thread.. so yeah.. ^^;;

Anyways, A couple of weeks ago & last friday, I've been having dreams of the same person over and over again. Each dream different from the next. And in each dream, We're either really close, acting almost like a couple and the next we would just see each other, and he wouldn't see me (yet this only happened once). I've been having dreams of him 6 times already, and I'm trying to figure out why. FYI, This guy I had liked for a little while and we had class together before I left the school we both went.

And I'm just asking you fellow soompiers, does this mean something? For me having dreams of the same guy over again?
Or Is it just a dream and there's no meaning to it? I would like to know your thoughts on this.


  • MannosukeMannosuke Posts: 12,760Member


    It may mean something, but I wouldn't think much about it.
    The real question is: are you going to do anything about it? Like maybe ask him out?
  • SUPER.NANASUPER.NANA Posts: 2,193Friend of Soompi


    Dreams are unconscious desires.

    You have "desires" for this person you are dreaming of.

    That's all I have to say.
  • ShiroPetalShiroPetal California - USAPosts: 122Member
    edited April 2010
    It may mean something but a dream is just a dream. Maybe you just miss him or wanna be close to someone? You could still like him, that's up to you. 'Cause it could really mean a lotta things...
  • YashiYashi supacrazycool CaliforniaPosts: 489Friend of Soompi
    it happened to me when i was in 7th/8th grade. i kept having dreams about this guy i had a crush on, and it gave me this "feeling" that we'd be together one day. long story short, it never happened, and we're still friends today. distant friends, but still friends. so, in your case, i don't think it means a lot, unless he's suddenly come back in your life or something...
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  • bonjour tristesse.bonjour tristesse. 가지 마세요. Posts: 7,019Member


    QUOTE (SUPER.NANA @ Aug 9 2009, 06:57 PM) »Dreams are unconscious desires.

    You have "desires" for this person you are dreaming of.

    That's all I have to say.
    I second this ; plus, its dreams. Maybe it is telling you something. But remember that believing a dream is as good as believing that your ideal life can actually happen to you.
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  • KeHAEaKeHAEa Kris! <\3 USAPosts: 1,210Friend of Soompi


    Dreams are fascinating. Haha.

    They express the id, your unconscious desires that sometimes slip up in the form of dreams. image
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  • MannosukeMannosuke Posts: 12,760Member


    The OP should provide more insight into her actual situation with the guy. The dream itself is meaningless.

    QUOTE (KeHAEa @ Aug 10 2009, 02:33 AM) »
    Dreams are fascinating. Haha.

    They express the id, your unconscious desires that sometimes slip up in the form of dreams. image

    I wish the id would pop up more often. Especially during a date? lol
  • thisismyvthisismyv 自由の戦士 Santa Clara, CaliforniaPosts: 2,344Member
    OM.... this happened to me during 7th grade summer going into 8th grade.. I had at least 20 dreams about the same guy, and I ended up crushing on him the entire year.

    Happened again sophomore year, except I liked the guy before because he was so damn cute! I liked him until halfway through Junior year...

    NOW... actually just the past few nights, I keep dreaming about my friend who I dated for a few weeks almost a year ago. I guess I'm still not over him, ugh. I hate this; this always happens when I'm on vacation! @__@
    It really sucks, because I just want to move on with my boyfriend, but these dreams just keep coming back and I keep thinking about him.. fml.
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  • MinMin09MinMin09 내 심장을 뛰게 하는 말 Posts: 258Member
    QUOTE (Mannosuke @ Aug 9 2009, 10:49 PM) »
    It may mean something, but I wouldn't think much about it.
    The real question is: are you going to do anything about it? Like maybe ask him out?

    True. It could mean something..
    I can't really do anything about it at the moment.. and I can't ask him out.
    For there's one problem..
    I moved away last year in Nov. and that was the last time I saw him. And I live
    far away from where he is. So I can't really do that.
  • bhaby gurlbhaby gurl bikini bottom(^_*)Posts: 230Member


    maybe your just thinking about him all the time

    that's why you dreamed of him many times

    sometimes that happens to me too

    so no need to worry.
  • sethsegelsethsegel Michael San DiegoPosts: 112Member
    Dreams are an interesting phenomenon, i honestly wish sometimes my brain wouldn't torment me with dreams of situations that can't happen in real life. It's like watching your true desires play out in front of you in the form of sand, you can only hold onto that moment for a second before it starts slipping through your fingers.
  • LieLie I'm #1 Posts: 3,272Moderator


    edited August 2009
    I've had reoccurring dreams (although they take place in different places, different times, etc). once or twice a year about the same girl I had a crush on in the 9th grade for about 6-7 years now. I think, even though I've dated lots and lots of girls, even fooled around with lots and lots of girls, she's the only one I ever had, and still have, sentimental feelings about. Which is weird because it's been 7 years and the person I knew then is likely long gone.
  • brownman90561495brownman90561495 Posts: 1,092Member
    for some occassions, i've been dreaming about this one girl for three years already. a few months ago, i had a very vivid dream of her. so vivid that i made a blog entry of it -

    dreams can tell you alot of things, and it can wake you up smiling or crying. - latest entry: Til We Meet Again || posted March 12, 2010 10:07M GMT +8. Please feel free to read and leave comments. This is the last entry of my blog. Thank you very much for the people who have followed my blog for the last 13 months.
  • Cin DeCin De cIndy THESHENSHENSPosts: 3,123Member


    you like him!!!! =P
    u aimlessly think about him without noticing before u go to sleep
    therefore u dream about him image
    haha thats just my thoughts btw. cos its true to me image
  • xxxxxxxxxxxxxx Posts: 757Member


    There's a scientific theory that states that the brain my be cleaning up or handling information.

    maybe it's that since you haven't seen him for a while?

  • xindixindi Posts: 1,093Member
    edited August 2009
    the meaning of dreams has been debated for a long time!

    My boyfriend, when I first started to like him, I dreamed about him every night~ hehe
    and then one time in the middle of that, I had a dream I was a couple with one of my guy friends!
    but, it didn't matter to me, it was just something that slipped into my subconscious. When I was awake I liked my boyfriend, not that guy. Sometimes dreams can mean something, otherwise they are just a little phase in your mind.

    Since you said you liked him, it's just because you are thinking about him/desiring that he pops into your dreams. (:

  • xNATxNAT Otakuland with Peony :)Posts: 578Member



    I heard that if someone appears in your dreams, then they want to see you so much that their soul detaches from their body and visits you in a dream. So maybe they like you?

    And like the first poster, will you do anything about it?

    sorry if it doesnt really help ><
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