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Boyfriend "liking" girls pictures on facebook - do u get jealous?


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Guest blackrosexoxo

i wouldn't be jealous. I think being too petty and pushy might even be worse in the long run! if you know that he likes you, you should feel confident in allowing him to simply like a photo on fb. and remember that pushing a button behind a computer is much easier than talking to someone in person. a "like" is simply a button to make someone feel better! the way i see it is if you can be comfortable enough to talk about other "hot guys" then your bf should at least be able to like a photo lol.

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Guest AngelAngel

No but I'm not really the jealous type when it comes to relationships. Let's put it this way: if he's going to cheat he'll cheat...some people are discreet about it while others are really obvious but I don't think "liking" a girl's photo is the cause.

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Guest georgieprod

lol i know its a bit too late, but i know not everyone is the same. some ppl can handle it and some ppl cant, and theres nothing wrong with any of that imo... anyways since ppl are different how will ur bf know that? u have to tell him if something bugs u so hes aware; if hes aware and still does things u hate, then there will be a problem.
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Guest devileyes

ajlee613 said:when i am really serious about a girl, other girls pretty much dont exist anymore. even if we are past the honey moon period of the relationship. and even if i found a girl atttractive, by pressing like on the picture, he is heading to the end of the slope. he tells him self it is acceptable to appreciate other girls' beauty, soon it will be ok to express it to other girls and soon he will be flirting cheating etc.

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If my boyfriend likes everything, I don't see what the big deal is. But if he was the type to stay away from liking things on facebook, and suddenly likes a photo of a girl, obviously that's a red flag of some sort, like why would he like this picture but nothing else on facebook, hmmmm?

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Guest k3tuyet

If the pictures of models/girls consist of them being in very minimal clothing... yes I do get jealous. I try to go for guys who respect women, as well as me, enough to not 'like' pictures of them exposed with sexual content.

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Guest DELETETHISACCOUNT

I feel like if it makes you uncomfortable, it is something that you should bring up to your partner.
I don't think it is an issue of whether you should or should not feel like this, but whether or not this is working in your relationship (which it obviously does not). I know people who watch porn together and if it works for them, then it works for them, and if not, it doesn't.
So, my only recommendation is to communicate with your partner, but definitely don't have people pressure you into feeling that this is okay or not okay to feel the way you are feeling. It is what works for your relationship.

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I'm the jealous type and my husband knows that so he respects that.

Even when we were dating, he never liked any girls pictures because he knows how I would feel about it.

But I do appreciate a nice body. So when I'm on my facebook (or anywhere) and I see a really nice looking girl in a bikini bent forward with tattoos, I automatically let my husband enjoy the view with me. Not because her chi-chis are hanging, but because we both appreciate art. So even if it's on a naked girls body, as long as he's looking at it with me, I'm 100% okay with it.

 

 

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Guest Iron_Maiden

See, this is one reason why Ogre is now refraining from attempting to date or get into a relationship irl. Too many problems and jealousy. 

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micky_x:] said:

I'm the jealous type and my husband knows that so he respects that.

Even when we were dating, he never liked any girls pictures because he knows how I would feel about it.

But I do appreciate a nice body. So when I'm on my facebook (or anywhere) and I see a really nice looking girl in a bikini bent forward with tattoos, I automatically let my husband enjoy the view with me. Not because her chi-chis are hanging, but because we both appreciate art. So even if it's on a naked girls body, as long as he's looking at it with me, I'm 100% okay with it.

 

 

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No I'm okay with him liking other girls pictures, unless it's someone who has a crush on him. Sometimes I have to admit that the girls are pretty, so I can't blame him. As long as he's not making a move on her.
I did get mad when he told two of my friends "you girls are beautiful! better watch out for guys!" which would have been fine.. But he never tells me I'm beautiful on fb. Now he does, occasionally

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makelovenoises said: No I'm okay with him liking other girls pictures, unless it's someone who has a crush on him. Sometimes I have to admit that the girls are pretty, so I can't blame him. As long as he's not making a move on her.
I did get mad when he told two of my friends "you girls are beautiful! better watch out for guys!" which would have been fine.. But he never tells me I'm beautiful on fb. Now he does, occasionally

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Guest justxlouise

It really all depends on the picture and how often these 'likes' happen. From experience, my boyfriend initially would like pictures of these few girls on Facebook and I let it slide and didn't want to bring it up. These pictures were of his friends who were being all sexy and wearing racy clothing. The more I let it slide, the more he was able to get away with things so I eventually confronted him. He stopped for like a month or so but continued again - there was always this one particular girl he would always like pictures of though. It got to the point where he was flirting with her behind my back and what not, and it wasn't a pretty ending. Moral of the story? Sometimes there's more to just a 'liking' a girl's photo.

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