Guest cocopuffs Posted April 19, 2009 Share Posted April 19, 2009 with new people you meetWhenever I meet new people, iunno how to start a conversations so it's usually only silence xD What kinds of topics do you talk to new people/friends about to keep an ongoing convo? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest yeonhee. Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 I got the same problem as you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
butterflyeffect Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 I usually ask people what kind of music do they listen to and what do they like to do, stuff like that and other random questions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Rainity Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 well for people i dont know, i usually talk about what we have in common than it just drags out the conversation Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest screamxlove Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 Social psychologists studies show that music is what starts friendships :] And go on from there. Unless they're quiet and nothing clicks, then... forgetchoo. haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest soulmate. Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 haha that happens to me too x] well, I guess I just ask them about their day and yeah. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest doll face Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 ^^ whoa, didn't know about that psychologist study. my first conversations, depending on where I meet them, will usually be about the event/place we're at (school, concerts, etc.) and then we just end up talking about music xD and how their week/day was~~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest vip_gd Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 talk about the little stuff that's happening at the moment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest litePiNK Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 Oo this is helpful since I'm new to Toronto, so it's nice to make new convos. 8D I guess it depends on the environment because in my English class, we have this really crappy teacher we all hate, so typical convo starters there would be like "I HAAATE that teacher..." And then it's followed by clamors of "Yeah me too." And we soon gossip about her. xD On Friday, I ran into a classmate of mine and to start off a conversation, I just talked about how their day was and school. xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lauj_geek93 Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 ...hmmm....i have the same problem. How about when you know that person, but you just don't really talk to her. for example, my cousin. I don't really talk to her and i know that we like totally different types music. eh...she's silent anyways. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest april.berry Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 i also have the same prob. i dunno how to start conversations. i just smile at the person and be silent. though sometimes i wanna talk and ask a few questions, but i feel shy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xkrndreamer Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 ask how their day was or how they're feeling duhh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest j00nie Posted April 20, 2009 Share Posted April 20, 2009 i start off by saying hello!! and talk about the little stuff that is happening at the moment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest WONTONSOUPx Posted April 21, 2009 Share Posted April 21, 2009 Omg, I have the same problem! >__< I suck at starting conversations! I'm just like, "Uh...hi." & then the conversation dies 1 minute later! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Cloud Expert Posted April 21, 2009 Share Posted April 21, 2009 i'd laugh and say something random. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lavender.Sky Posted April 21, 2009 Share Posted April 21, 2009 i ask about how their day is Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krstnellne Posted April 21, 2009 Share Posted April 21, 2009 Whenever I meet someone, I have to make sure they remember my name first. All throughout the conversation, I'm just like.. "What's my name, what's my name?" Then I'll be all random and be like "I like this and that.." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest SillyyJenn Posted April 21, 2009 Share Posted April 21, 2009 i usually talk about random stuff or i would suddenly start giggling about 2pm or big bang or some other obsession and they would ask me about it and then we'd talk xD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest scatter_me Posted April 27, 2009 Share Posted April 27, 2009 If it's school, talk about work. Someone elses friend, talk about the friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ChimDee Posted April 27, 2009 Share Posted April 27, 2009 "Nice weather we're having ..." It's a start at least. I'm not much of a social butterfly neither but I usually get one or two strangers strike up a conversation. Had a guy once ask me for the time whilst at the bus stop. From there somehow we went onto a full-blown conversation and by the time the bus arrived I discovered his age, occupation, s/o name and what he planned to have for dinner that night. Wasn't 'till later that evening I realized that I never got his name. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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