happynonsense Posted October 25, 2014 Share Posted October 25, 2014 I've had guys tell me they think I'm cute. I have never thought of myself as super attractive at all (I don't wear makeup ever) but I notice sometimes some guys look my way whether I'm on campus, in class, or studying in the library.When they're pretty cute themselves, I tend to be a little bit interested as well. But it always turns out too good to be true; I eventually find out they already have a gf. (This has happened to me three times!) It's so frustrating and every time this happens, my hope dampens. Why does this always happen? and how do I let it stop bothering me so much?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evirus Posted October 25, 2014 Share Posted October 25, 2014 They look at you because they think you are attractive. Doesn't matter that they have girl friends they will still look at you. It doesn't mean they are cheaters or anything it just means they like the way you look. Maybe you are attractive and just don't know it especially if you say you never wear makeup. Either that or they aren't really looking at you :-(. You really shouldn't let this bother you do you want to date every man that you look at? I sure as hell don't want to date every woman I look at. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest luxbunni Posted October 26, 2014 Share Posted October 26, 2014 how do I let it stop bothering me so much??ok gurllll. just remember that just because a guy looks at you doesn't mean he likes you or is interested in you. if you are good looking to them guys, they will look! A good option to not let this bother you is to have some sort of rule. For example, when I was still playing the single life game the rule was that I would never guess if a guy liked me or not. Either they tell me straight out or I wouldn't waste my time thinking about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
raymondc27 Posted October 26, 2014 Share Posted October 26, 2014 Haha I recently met a friend. She gets her number ask whenever she goes out. I laugh at her and ask how you get use to it. She said eh it's becoming normal. You'll get used to it eventually Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nyckira Posted October 26, 2014 Share Posted October 26, 2014 There are girls out there who dont get looked at, at all. Maybe instead of seeing this as so terrible you should feel grateful people are even looking at you. Its like someone complaining when the internet goes down for 30 minutes. Yeah, its fine to be upset but not worth starting a public thread about it when there are other people who dont get internet at all.ps. Theres no such thing as only having good looking guys with girlfriends to look at you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Affixationproud Posted October 26, 2014 Share Posted October 26, 2014 Hello, I agree with luxbunni.Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest I_play_with_dolls Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 Being in a relationship doesn't permit people from finding other people attractive. Also just because they think you're attractive doesn't mean they want to date you. Idk girl, you're old enough to be on uni, this stuff should be common sense. I kind of feel like I'm responding to a 14 year old middle school girl from a shoujo manga, you know, those mangas where the character's eyes are huge and sparkly as the nebula. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jso1 Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 There are so many reasons the guys could be looking at you for reasons beyond attraction. Sometimes I just find people interesting to look at as I walk by. It doesn't necessarily have to mean anything beyond that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~ BunnyliciouS ~ Posted October 28, 2014 Share Posted October 28, 2014 well, they have eyes. They can't just can't look, ya know. Just walk to the opposite way, or don't stare back. When I am with my hubby, I still look around for good looking men and women. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest nobody knows Posted October 28, 2014 Share Posted October 28, 2014 lol ....sometimes i stare at someone too much cos they're so ugly that i can't look awayprolly not your casebutjust goes to show, people will stare for the strangest reasons Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
livingforhistory Posted October 28, 2014 Share Posted October 28, 2014 Would you rather they not look at you? Be thankful you're worth looking at. A lot of people on this world are dying to be noticed only to be totally invisible, especially to people they want to notice to them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ninshark Posted October 28, 2014 Share Posted October 28, 2014 you just have to be patient, that's all -__- unfortunately. I've met many girls, most of the good looking ones are taken, the rest of the good looking ones don't find me attractive. it really is frustrating. even my ex was taken when she first met me, f-ing unreal. why is everyone taken? the only thing I can do is keep trying and be patient about it. I'll complain, that's for sure, but at the end of the day, I know that I'm going to end up having to wait. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
odaesan Posted October 28, 2014 Share Posted October 28, 2014 nobody knows said: lol ....sometimes i stare at someone too much cos they're so ugly that i can't look awayprolly not your casebutjust goes to show, people will stare for the strangest reasons Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
5880 Posted October 30, 2014 Share Posted October 30, 2014 I have a 54'' tv at home, but that doesn't stop me from checking out the 60'' at Costco. I think it's more or less OK as long as you don't buy it home. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Nikki_Valentine Posted October 30, 2014 Share Posted October 30, 2014 Guys with gf's look at me too but I guess that's just the nature of guys. They're always wanting more than they have.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mintcracker Posted November 2, 2014 Share Posted November 2, 2014 It happens to everyone? You can think sb is good looking, doesn't mean anything though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SophiaY Posted November 4, 2014 Share Posted November 4, 2014 Just because they look doesn't mean they want you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest kawi250r Posted November 18, 2014 Share Posted November 18, 2014 Relax stop over thinking. Guys are guys and are gonna check out any girl no matter if theyre dating someone. Doesnt mean they wanna date you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DFO-King Posted November 22, 2014 Share Posted November 22, 2014 You're over reacting you think they're looking at you but they're really not. School is big with a lot of people so don't assume he's looking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ayahuasca Posted December 4, 2014 Share Posted December 4, 2014 Probably giving you what you seem to crave (considering you've started a thread on it): attention. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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